When dating older women
‘Young kids wanting to think of themselves as players preying on the older women dancing around their handbags on the dance floor.This is more of lust thing though and not someone in search of a relationship.In reality, there are much more men dating older women than you can imagine.These couples can be everywhere around you, but they are not easy to spot, because older women are remarkably good at looking fabulous. *throws phone at where my personal assistant would be sitting if I could afford to have one* I’m going to breathe and calm myself down. Now I’m no longer angry at being kept out of the loop, I’m THRILLED that 48-year-old Super Naomi is (rumoured to be) seeing 25-year-old popster Liam. (Thank you.) As the creator of the word WHIP (Women who are Hot, Intelligent and in their Prime – or Primark if times are tough), I applaud these ‘finger up at society’ age-gap relationships. He’s mature, experienced and powerful, and she’s firm, fertile and fuckable. For me, it’s Twitter, not Tinder (or indeed toyboywarehouse.com) where I’m meeting them. You’d think the dates would be excruciatingly awkward, with cultural references tumbleweeding. We talk about our work, about what we’ve been up to, about politics/the world imploding, and we laugh. There is something very attractive about women who have real life experience – and the perspective and lack of fucks left to give that that brings. They are men I would have killed to meet – but could never attract – when I was in my 20s and 30s. This is based on one man, really, so these are huge generalisations, but that’s my two cents’ worth! James, 42, from Wales: ‘I can only speak for myself but I am always drawn to women who are older than me.There is nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants and this proves your maturity for your age. Do not talk about her as a ‘cougar.’ It suggests that she is older and some women still find the term offensive. If you continue to express how amazed you are to be in the relationship, how well it works with SO many years between you, she will get bored and it’s rude.If she doesn’t treat you like her son, do not treat her like your mum.
‘I don’t believe all that tosh about Freud and mummy issues, and I never went to public school… Now I’m in my 40s, I find them interesting, more relaxed and more experienced in life, love, travel and sex. I also love them in leopard print – but that’s another story…’ Someone’s been looking in my wardrobe…With older women dating, younger men get to build a strong relationship with an equal or even allow the woman to take control.Now that you know what makes so many men date cougars, there is one more question left unanswered: “Do older women like younger men?Take her out for dinner, ask her what she likes, where she wants to go, and follow through.
There is a stereotype that most guys are only attracted to young girls, while men who like older women are nearly impossible to find.
And we didn’t break up because he was 14 years younger than me; we broke up because he was a dick. And the men DMing me on Twitter are also in their 20s and 30s.